Time is a gift.  Sleeping peacefully is a gift.  Waking to a new day is a gift.  We expect joy and pleasure as we would from any other gift. Some of us make very precise plans for our lives.  Sometimes some of those plans become reality.  Sometimes some of those plans do not materialize.  We can’t control everything and certainly not everyone. We make our decisions based on the knowledge that we have at the moment.  When those decisions lead us to pain and discomfort instead of joy and pleasure, we must stop to reassess, forgive ourselves and others.  We must heal in mind, body and soul.  Healing brings strength…